Sunday, February 24, 2013

Adoption Timeline

Time has a funny way of slowly ticking by, and yet flying at the same time. Here is an outline of the timing for our adoption:

June 2012                                     Katie makes first trip to Haiti

August 2012                                  D Day - Decision to adopt Day

September-November 2012             compile dossier
                                                    Home Study
                                                    dossier apostilled in Austin, TX
                                                    dossier legalized at Haitian consulate in Orlando, FL
                                                    dossier shipped to Haiti from Florida

November 2012                             received phone call with referrals (at Disney World)

November 2012                             Mark and Katie flew to Haiti to meet a 3 year old girl and baby boy
                                                   fingerprints

January 20, 2013                          baby boy very, very sick (in hospital for about a week)

February 2013                               Haiti IBESR open, but not accepting dossiers yet

April-May 2013                              told IBESR will likely open and accept 2012 dossiers

May 7, 2013                                  find out that the children's aunt took them to live with her

May 10, 2013                                 unofficial referral of new kids: 2 year old boy and baby girl

May 15-19                                     Mark and Katie flew to Haiti for parent weekend & meet new kids

May 21, 2013                                dossier is accepted in Haiti's IBESR! We got a case number!

end of summer, early fall 2013      found out that both our creche AND the American director of                                                                                                                  
                                                        the agency we were using were corrupt

fall 2013-January 2014                  praying about what to do (without an adoption decree, we have no      
                                                       legal say in the children's welfare, but they desperately needed to be
                                                       moved)

December 2013                              little boy turns 3

January 7, 2014                             receive a call connecting us to a Private Investigator in Haiti. He                            
                                                      was helping another family remove their child from the creche when              
                                                      our birth mother* overheard and joined them. She said she wanted
                                                      the children to be adopted and asked where they could go for that to  
                                                      happen. HUGE MIRACLE!

January 14, 2014                          PI picked up mother* and children and took them to the new creche

January 15, 2014                          children under new care and medical attention (baby girl severely
                                                     malnourished and fighting a bad infection; little boy not much better)

January 15, 2014                         told that our adoption should and could happen, but would have to
                                                      start from scratch. The mother* was not actually their mother, but    
                                                       aunt. Their mother had passed away.
                                                       Family will have to appear in court and set the records straight, then
                                                       new and truthful paperwork would be done (once the children's
                                                       dossier is accurate, adoption can continue)
                                                   
January 2014                                baby girl turns 1